A drink and a conversation
Grab a drink, find a seat and get talking. There's plenty of time to meet people at your own pace.
A smaller women-only social in London, before the main Balancers Saturday Social.
127 Finsbury Pavement, London EC2A 1NS
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Women-only, free, smaller and easier way to meet people before the main social.
A smaller women-only pre-event before the main Social, a chance to come a little earlier, share a glass of wine, have a chat and connect in a more relaxed setting before the main crowd arrives.
There is no forced structure and no pressure to work the room. We've created a smaller space, added a few easy reasons to interact, and our hosts are there to help get things started.
The shape of the evening
Grab a drink, find a seat and get talking. There's plenty of time to meet people at your own pace.
There'll be a few optional games around if you want to join in. Or just keep chatting.
Our hosts welcome you, make introductions when helpful, and help conversations get started. They're around throughout the evening if you need them.
Wine Not? is a social in its own right. At 7:30, you can continue into the main Balancers Social if you'd like.
How it flows
Check in, get a drink, and step into a smaller women-only social.
Talk, join an optional game, or move between groups. There is no script.
Head off after Wine Not, or continue into the main Balancers Saturday Social next door.
Built for women
You like the idea of meeting people in a smaller women-only setting.
You are open to meeting women you do not already know.
You are happy to talk, join a game, or simply be in the room.
You might continue into the main Saturday Social. You might not.
Wine Not only works when people treat each other with respect. Kindness and openness are part of how the room runs, and we will step in if behaviour makes someone uncomfortable, unsafe or disrespected. Code of Conduct
Continue into the main Saturday Social: London Social Night
Come alone, meet new people and put yourself out there — while respecting the people around you. Our hosts are here to help, and we take the comfort and safety of our community seriously.
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